how to undress a woman #mustread

I get tons of questions from readers on a daily basis. The majority of questions come from male readers who want to be good with women. The rest come from women who want to know me better. Now the most recent question I got is from a guy who has been denied sex several times after undressing women. Here was his question

“Hey Etemesi, my name is Joe. I always wonder if there is an appropriate way to undress a chick so that she doesn’t stop you or change your mind during the act. I have had several women change their mind on me after I had already taken off their clothes. It sucks. Any advice?”

Chicks start measuring a guy's performance well before his pants come off. Lungula starts as soon as the first zipper makes a southern slide and what follows – the process by which two people become two naked people – colors the entire experience that follows. Fortunately, it's mostly intuitive. but there are actually two tested methods for doing it right.

1: Tell Her to Undress for You

I sometimes ask girls to take off their clothes before we go to my bedroom. This is gold. But does requiring a chick to disrobe before entering your bedroom make any logical sense? Of course not. But since when do chicks caught up in the excitement of a possible wild baning care about logic? Seduction is, first and foremost, about emotion. Your words are just a silky thin facade to cloak the subtext of sexual anticipation.

Women want to be led by men, and never is this more apparent, and more true, than two steps from your bedroom. Women particularly love when men tell them what to do sexually. It hits all the female buttons that crave submission to a dominant man. She will love you for making her a follower, and resent you for allowing her to lead. By telling her to undress for you, not only are you putting her on display, which makes her feel sexy, but you exude confidence and power - forever a turn on. Tell her what to take off, piece by piece, until the both of you are nicely primed for action. Of course you shouldn’t start to scream at her like an annoying policeman, whenever she should get rid of one piece of clothing. If you command her in an aggressive and demanding way, you won’t see any naked skin. Instead of playing officer, you show her that you are a leader who is certain of success.

Look her deep in the eyes, give her a seductive smile and whisper “I want you to take off your top…now” in her ear. Give her a kiss and see what happens. I bet that she’ll smile at you right after she took off her top. This smile means nothing but “I am waiting for further instructions”.

2: Handle it as part of foreplay

Instead of taking her clothes off first then starting foreplay, combine the two. In my experience a good way of dealing with the impatience that you’ll definitely have when you are only minutes away from sticking your ‘D’ in a delicious punani, is to regard the undressing process as part of the foreplay. If you don’t do that, the minutes of slowly undressing her can feel like hours.

I know how tempting it is to just rip her clothes off and to shag her.

However, what chics (even whores) want is a romantic experience that makes them feel even more connected to you. So how do you transform the minutes in which you take her clothes off into a romantic experience?

Take off one piece of clothing after another. Take your time with it and show her how much you admire and value her body
Take off her top, smile at her and give her a passionate kiss. Before you get rid of her bra you embrace her and kiss her neck.

After you got rid of her bra, you can start to caress her breasts, to kiss them and to massage them. Once you slowly pulled down her pants or her skirt, you can use the tip of your fingers to massage her punani. Do this while she still wears her panties. Then you can kiss her, embrace her and put your hands in her panties. Grab her ass and massage it while you are kissing her.

What’s next?